Confrontational Dialogue:A Social Media Epidemic

The revolution will not be socialvised. Yes, I know it's not a word (yet) but I'm coining it from this moment on. Your revolution will not be SOCIAL-vised; meaning the battles you fight on social media are rarely successful. The arguments that you participate in on social media rarely changes the opinion of your oppressor … Continue reading Confrontational Dialogue:A Social Media Epidemic

Are you his Safe Haven?


Most women are nurturer's and when most women who are nurturers see someone they love or care for hurting they mostly go into "let me help you FEEL better" mode. Now; let's be clear here that not all women are nurturer's just like all men aren't fixer's. Truth be told some women have what society … Continue reading Are you his Safe Haven?

Modern Day Dating Phases


Like many people who get out of relationships I found myself trying to replace the void that existed too soon. I went on a few dates soon after my break up only to realize that I wasn't ready to bring someone new into my life and so I decided to take a step back from dating anyone when I realized I wasn't quite healed.

An Equation that I do not Know

A lot has  been happening in my life since the end of 2015 that has drastically altered my world. As some of you have probably noticed I barely come to this place anymore. I imagine that if untouched blogs could resemble real life things then my blog resembles a old house that looks good on … Continue reading An Equation that I do not Know

Humility Is A Virtue

One of the biggest issues that I see that causes broken relationships is often the lack of humility by either one person or all people in the relationship. It's often misunderstood as a weakness, almost on the same level of one being meek. But being meek doesn't make you weak, in fact, many spiritual practices … Continue reading Humility Is A Virtue

The Variables of Life

"There are many equations for a successful life but the only one that makes sense, is the one you create" Jay Noetic" I awoke this morning with a word on my mind and even as I write these words I'm not sure why this word has been stuck in the  cognitive quicksand that is my … Continue reading The Variables of Life

Happiness: Finding it, Keeping it & Sharing it

“Happiness is not the absence of problems, it's the ability to deal with them.” ― Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free There are two things in our lives that we all most assuredly want before our spirits move on to infinite bliss. Those two things are love and happiness. We all want this. You want … Continue reading Happiness: Finding it, Keeping it & Sharing it

Transformation: How I Became The Person People Like A thorough and dramatic change in form or appearance I remember vividly when it began. I was twenty two years old and I was angry at the world. I was sitting on the "stoop" in the middle of summer pondering life with two guys I had recently befriended in the apartment complex. One guy was … Continue reading Transformation: How I Became The Person People Like

Unforgettable Memories and The People Who Touch Our Hearts

"We are born into the world without being able to choose our family (good and bad), but with some wisdom and life experience we choose friends who become our family"- Linai Booker My friend Linai ( made the above statement on her facebook status over the weekend after attending an event that I hosted in … Continue reading Unforgettable Memories and The People Who Touch Our Hearts