Are you his Safe Haven?

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Most women are nurturer's and when most women who are nurturers see someone they love or care for hurting they mostly go into "let me help you FEEL better" mode. Now; let's be clear here that not all women are nurturer's just like all men aren't fixer's. Truth be told some women have what society … Continue reading Are you his Safe Haven?

Modern Day Dating Phases

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Like many people who get out of relationships I found myself trying to replace the void that existed too soon. I went on a few dates soon after my break up only to realize that I wasn't ready to bring someone new into my life and so I decided to take a step back from dating anyone when I realized I wasn't quite healed.

I Know What I Need and It’s Uncomfortable

I know what I need and I won't settle for anything less We've all heard this above statement plenty of times throughout our  adult life and it's very likely that you have uttered these words to your friend. Most often this statement is spoken when someone ask another person why they're single. It's true, join any relationship … Continue reading I Know What I Need and It’s Uncomfortable

Modern Day Dating: Pedigree Men vs Degree Men

Ladies, could it be time to think differently about the men that you do or don't date? Do you only date inside your race? Do you only date men with the same religious faith as you? Do you only date men who resemble the "image" you've had in your mind since you were twenty-one? Do … Continue reading Modern Day Dating: Pedigree Men vs Degree Men

Super Friends:Letting People know You Love Them..

Lately, inside this mind of mine I've been asking myself one fundamental question. Do the people I care most for know that I love them? It seems like a question that would be easy to answer but the truth of the matter is I'm not so sure that they do. Sure, they understand that I'm … Continue reading Super Friends:Letting People know You Love Them..

What Human’s Do:Debunking the Gender Differences

I attended a round-table discussion the other night in which the focus of the discussion was about relationships and dating or as I like to call it "The Great Debate". If anyone has ever participated in this type of event then you understand that it can get a little heated and a little personal during … Continue reading What Human’s Do:Debunking the Gender Differences

Soul Mover: The Words Unsaid

So there I was listening to what this beautiful woman who had been part of my life for the last month and half was saying. She was trying to explain to me how she feels we had got to the point  we were at and all I could think about was moving on. Not moving … Continue reading Soul Mover: The Words Unsaid

The Harder Decisions In Life

“All you can do is make your decisions based on what you know now.” ― Malinda Lo, Huntress I made a decision last week that was neither easy nor comfortable. I struggled in making this decision for many reasons because I knew that no matter how good we think  we are at being a great … Continue reading The Harder Decisions In Life

Modern Day Dating: Tips For The Modern Age Dater

Let's be honest, Dating has become almost unbearable for most of the single people out there. Unless you are simply looking for sexual encounters (nothing wrong with that) or not ready for a serious commitment (nothing wrong with this either) most have given up hope of finding a potential mate. If you were to sit … Continue reading Modern Day Dating: Tips For The Modern Age Dater

Dating Jay:The Bonafide Top 40 Things…hehehe

Ah yes, getting to know someone in the beginning of the dating phase can be either very exciting, extremely dull, extremely scary or combination of all three. God be with you if you come across the person who fits the mold of all three. If I had one suggestion for you if you find yourself … Continue reading Dating Jay:The Bonafide Top 40 Things…hehehe